It’s true when they say “not all heroes wear capes.”
This week is National Teacher Appreciation Week, and I can’t help but think about the educators who have made an impact in my life.
Not only did their lessons inside the classroom make a difference, but so did their character, mannerisms and life lessons not written in a textbook.
Here are five I hold close.
Build lasting relationships
I was always the kid who hated the last day of school. Not only would I be saying “see ya later” to friends, but this also meant I’d be leaving the teacher(s) I connected with all year.
If possible, I loved being able to visit their classroom the following year(s) to give hugs and life updates. Their smiles and kind words showed me they genuinely cared outside the classroom.
Thanks to technology and social media, I’m grateful to still communicate with many via the web and/or occasionally meet for a meal (of course, not during quaratine).
Mind the business that pays you
One of my teachers would always say, “I go to my classroom, do my job and go home.” That used to be the funniest saying. Now, I know what she meant.
There are situations that don’t deserve your time or energy, especially if they don’t concern you. Everybody’s business doesn’t have to be mine, and there’s peace in knowing that.
Encouragement goes a long way
School wasn’t really my “thing” until seventh grade. Meaning that, my grades were just so/so until I started believing in myself and putting forth the effort to do well.
There were many teachers who saw my potential and never gave up on me no matter how well or not so well I did. Their encouraging words finally set in, and I went on to graduate from high school and college with honors.


Do the most (when necessary)
I lived for the moments when teachers wore a costume, added music or a video or made up a song to teach a lesson. No matter how corny it may have seemed, it always showed they went the extra mile.
Whether it’s a project or surprise for a loved one, I enjoy the moments when I can add a pop no one expected. It’s those little elements that don’t go unnoticed.
Self care is the best care
“This work will be here when I return in the morning” is what one of my teachers would say to let us (students) know she had a life outside the classroom.
I understand this more than ever now. Work-life balance is real and has to be practiced to avoid burnout. Having an outlet outside of work is essential whether it’s simply spending time with family and friends, having alone time with a riveting read or watching a great tv show or movie.
These things refuel you for the next task or challenge.
To all the educators who continue to make a difference, thank you.